Tragedy called for a radical change in my male friendships | Psyche Turning Points
Psycheby Rajeev Balasubramanyam·10h ago
Two years ago, I attended the funeral of someone I’d known who had taken his own life. He was 40 when he did it. I’d known him since he was 14, his brother one of my closest friends.
Want to be a lifelong learner? Don’t go it alone | Psyche Ideas
Psycheby Celine Nguyen·1d ago
The year after I graduated from university – from a degree that I struggled through dutifully and mostly dispassionately – I began to feel that I had missed out on an actual education.
A psychological guide to climbing out of debt | Psyche Guides
Psycheby Vicky Reynal·2d ago
If you’re struggling with debt, you’ll know that it is more than a financial issue. As a psychotherapist, I work every day with people who have ended up in problem debt – debt that is a struggle to...
What does it really take to be a resilient mother? | Psyche Ideas
Psycheby Sarah Emmerson·3d ago
‘I’m just not strong enough to handle it. My mother did all this and she had three kids. I can’t even cope with one. I’m pathetic.’ Andrea* looks down, avoiding my gaze.
Remembering the ephemera of my life gives it meaning | Psyche Notes to Self
Psycheby Anandi Mishra·6d ago
While I’ve come across various literary and artistic works praising the art of looking, what truly led me down this path was Nirmal Verma’s Ek Chithda Sukh (1979), translated as A Rag Called...
Why long-brewing physical and mental breakdowns feel so sudden | Psyche Ideas
Psycheby Sasi S Senga·7d ago
I remember reading the words brain metastases on my phone between surgical cases. As the message arrived, the hospital corridor around me continued its ordinary rhythm. Doors opened and closed.
I am a full-service grandad. Where are the others? | Psyche Turning Points
Psycheby Liam Heneghan·8d ago
The grandmother hypothesis is well known. Grandmothers are said to improve evolutionary fitness, helping children survive and families endure across generations.
When you feel moral disgust, what’s the emotion telling you? | Psyche Ideas
Psycheby Brandon Yip·9d ago
‘Disgusting’ and similar words are flung across political divides quite often today. For example, the US president Donald Trump has used the word to describe his political opponents, journalists...
He mapped the learning brain. Then came the hard part | Psyche Portraits
Psycheby Nancy Averett·10d ago
Stanislas Dehaene enters a small library inside the mansion that houses the French ministry of education.
The way we talk to bots matters even if they aren’t conscious | Psyche Ideas
Psycheby HennyGe Wichers·13d ago
I’m standing in the pouring rain trying to retrieve a parcel from a locker wall that just won’t open. I call the help desk and am greeted by Matt, a customer service chatbot.
How to cope with the stress of anti-LGBTQ+ prejudice | Psyche Guides
Psycheby Kiki Fehling·15d ago
‘It’s such a relief to finally be in a room with people who just get it.’ I heard this message a lot when I was providing group therapy sessions for LGBTQ+ clients.
What does it mean to have relationship ambivalence? | Psyche Ideas
Psycheby Francesca Righetti·16d ago
We tend to talk about our relationships as either satisfying or unsatisfying, healthy or toxic. This either/or perspective shapes a lot of relationship advice, and filters through to the ways many...
His frailty made Ozzy’s final gig true heavy metal | Psyche Turning Points
Psycheby Keith Kahn-Harris·17d ago
I am grateful no one else is in the room with me. In principle, I’ve no problem with my family seeing me cry: but blinking away hot salty tears while watching Ozzy Osbourne?
Maxxing treats life as a problem when it’s a mystery | Psyche Ideas
Psycheby Håkon Evjemo·20d ago
In 2021, while working from home at my corporate law gig, I became obsessed with napping. Throughout my working life, the post-lunch slump felt like an unavoidable feature of the 9-to-5.
Why we should embrace fair-weather fandom | Psyche Notes to Self
Psycheby Hannah Seo·21d ago
I will confess that, when it comes to sports, I am a fair-weather fan. I like basketball but had little interest in the New York Knicks until they made it to the NBA finals in June.
Terminal lucidity: when dying dementia patients regain awareness | Psyche Ideas
Psycheby Ariel Zeleznikow-Johnston·22d ago
An 81-year-old woman with advanced Alzheimer’s is living in a retirement home in Iceland. She hasn’t recognised her family or spoken a word to them in a year.
How a to-do task stopped the ruminative loop of my grief | Psyche Turning Points
Psycheby Sandra Lamb·23d ago
The phone rang five times, and then it rang some more. I was calling from Charlotte, North Carolina – wedged into the cracked-leather passenger seat of a friend’s Honda, my suitcase still exhaling...
How to uncover your blind spots | Psyche Guides
Psycheby Jennifer Farrell·24d ago
is a counselling psychologist and co-owner of a private practice in Florida. Her work explores self-awareness, relational patterns, and interpersonal dynamics.
Why women’s laughter has long been treated as a threat | Psyche Ideas
Psycheby Abílio Almeida·27d ago
My grandmother, Tina, was born in the 1930s in a small village in northern Portugal. She had a difficult life. Widowed young, she was forced to raise 13 children on her own.
Why it helps to see impatience as an emotion, not a trait | Psyche Notes to Self
Psycheby Amy Arthur·28d ago
Last month, while watching Christopher Nolan’s new epic The Odyssey, I couldn’t help but marvel at the patience of Penelope, who waits 20 years for her husband – the king, Odysseus – to return to...
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